Catching our Breath

This is a guest blog post by Eric Stiles, NSVRC Lifespan Project Manager

It is towards the end of your shift and you only have an hour left. A new patient comes who needs a forensic examination. You start to shift from your normal routine to the mode of collecting all that you need for the examination. You run down the lists in your head about what you need to do for both the medical needs and evidence collection. As you try and collect yourself the fears of what you might see arise. You start to think of what might have happened to the patient. As these thoughts race through your head, you take a deep breath and knock on the door and introduce yourself and the examination begins. This is an experience many of you can relate to when you are working as a SANE. Each time you have to prepare yourself before the exam starts.

But what happens after or in between each exam? How do you take care of yourself? What supports does your SANE program have?

Vicarious Trauma is something that affects all who work with survivors of trauma. Vicarious Trauma is a shift in world view due to being exposed to violence that affects others. It can be experienced as losing empathy for others, stress, fatigue, and nightmares. As a SANE you hold onto many roles as you perform your duties. You are the medical professional; you are the evidence collector, and often the connector to other professionals. All these roles require a great deal of skill and empathy. Engaging your empathetic responses can expose you to vicarious trauma. Vicarious Trauma is something that we can manage. Check out this clinical guide and consider these ideas: find peers to discuss your experiences with, have regular supervision, make time outside of work for physical activities, and keep a regular diet and sleep schedule (we know that last one isn’t easy).

A key resource and strategy to reduce and manage vicarious trauma that is often overlooked is your local sexual assault advocacy program. Your local center can provide individual and group meetings for you to process your exposure to vicarious trauma. They have the background in working with trauma survivors and significant others. Speaking as a former advocate it is our job to assist all who are affected by sexual violence and you are in that list. We do not judge you or see it as a weakness. Processing out the feelings that come up in doing this work is the way that keeps you able to be there for the patients you treat in an effective and sustainable way. And that is the reason why you became a SANE in the first place.

Check out the resources for vicarious trauma

For additional resources: National Sexual Violence Resource Center or International Association of Forensic Nurses.

Photo entitled “Breathe”, by Gemma Stiles at https://flickr.com/photos/57254022@N03/8130294387 used under Creative Commons Attribution 2.0 Generic license.

 

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Dandelion seeds blowing in wind. Planning for Sexual Assault Awareness Month 2014 is actively in the works, and it’s exciting to begin to see the campaign begin to take shape. Soon we will be able to share the upcoming campaign theme and hint at what’s coming, but it’s not quite time to dive in yet. The suspense is complimentary, and your patience is appreciated.  

For the moment, I’m blogging to find rest. In my mind’s eye I’m picturing the squiggly line that Wikipedia tells me is called a Crotchet rest. An interval of silence in music, it’s a functional pause. 

As soon as the SAAM 2013 campaign began winding down, our focus moved from actively participating and sharing to capturing and evaluating these activities. With only a year between each April, our planning process moves forward at a constant clip. The conversations about 2014 snuck into meetings as early as January. Ideas sprinkled in feedback, brainstorms, and discussions. It’s energy, excitement and, quite honestly, a tinge of overwhelm. As a creative, I teeter between thriving and drowning in the whirlpool of what could be. The ideas are big and the wish lists are long. 

Now not everyone spends their calendar year coordinating a new project like the SAAM campaign, but most of us have these projects in our work and life. Maybe you’ve experienced this energy when kicking-off a new program, or launching a group, coordinating an event, or organizing a happening in some other way or form. Or maybe it’s just summer and your to-do list has filled up again, and our excitement is tempered by impeding structural barriers:timelines, deliverables, funding. 

In these moments when the pull is strong, it seems like rest is the enemy. Don’t you see what I have to do? There are mountains to scale, cures to find and tasks to cross off the list. But don’t you worry, we will get there.

In these moments when excitement, possibility, and opportunity begin to weigh down our work, it’s time for the functional pause. I remind myself that even the grandest melodies have measures of rest. Rest is where we find our breath. Pause is what creates rhythm. The intentional breaks are also where the essential surfaces, and we remember it’s OK to let some ideas and opportunities go as long as the main goal and spirit of our work are in sight. 

What does this mean for SAAM 2014? It means that we so excited for the upcoming campaign, and in my humble opinion, it’s gonna rock! From a planning perspective it also means acknowledging that excitement and passion have yet to give us wings. This doesn’t mean our work can’t take flight, but I believe that it happens when it’s grounded in our vision, capacity and passion. What do you think?

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